How to plan and organise a proposal on Lake Como

Lake Como is one of the most romantic places in the world, making it the perfect backdrop for a marriage proposal. Here are some ideas and insider tips from experienced photographers and videographers to help you plan an unforgettable proposal.

The “undercover” proposal

Our first category in the proposal types. Basically, in this scenario your partner doesn’t suspect or know a thing. You arrive at the agreed upon location in the agreed upon time, where we, the photographers, wait for you with our long distance lenses, posing as tourists and blending into the surroundings.

If you’ve booked a video and want your speech be captured, sneak out “into the bathroom” so that we attach a tiny microphone onto you, we’ll be too far away for the camera to capture your voice otherwise.

We discreetly capture every detail of the moment, and come out after you’ve popped the question for a portrait session with you and your now fiancé.

A close up shot of an engagement ring while the future bride had her hand around the fiance's shoulder

The “photoshoot” proposal

You tell your partner you’ve booked a couple’s photoshoot to capture some lovely memories together. This allows your partner to feel prepared and dressed up for photos, and requires less coordination on your end than the first proposal option.

The SUPER PRO TIP would be to make your partner be the one to suggest and plan the photoshoot! This way they definitely won’t be suspecting anything, all while you plan out the surprise proposal behind their back with the photographer.

We, the photographers, proceed with a “standard” couple’s photoshoot and at some point guide your partner in a specific pose that gives you the cue to reveal the ring. The surprise and joy on your partner’s face will be beautifully captured forever!

Couple is kissing while sitting inside a luxury wooden boat on Lake Como

– Authentic towns like Varenna, Bellagio, or Como offer cute romantic streets and lakeside views free of charge, but will surely be bustling with tourists. Early mornings and off-season months are best for some privacy.

– To bring the vibes up a notch, you can book one of the iconic lakeside villas, like Villa del Balbianello, Villa Melzi, or Villa Monastero. Check their rules and restrictions on the official websites first. Often proposals and photoshoots are organised during the villas’ open hours, so there might be other visitors around. Not all venues allow proposal set ups either.

– Our SPECIAL TIP – propose on a boat for an even more unforgettable experience! It’s just the two of you (and the driver, and the photographer potentially…), surrounded by sparkling waters and breathtaking views. And you can still pull of the “undercover” proposal: hire the iconic wooden boat for the two of you and a simpler, secondary boat for the photographers. This way, we capture the magic from a distance without disrupting the moment.

A couple is in a wooden boat in the middle of Lake Como. The man is kneeling to propose, the woman is happily surprised
Photo of a man standing on one knee, proposing by surprise to his girlfriend. Both are dressed elegantly, the proposal spot is decorated with red roses and candles placed on the floor

Ready to make the move? Contact us and let’s talk about bringing your dream proposal to life!

Alber and Anastasia are posing together with their cameras

Planning your wedding, proposal, or a photoshoot? We’re Alber and Anastasia, a photography and videography duo with 5 years of experience capturing unforgettable moments in this stunning destination. Whether it’s the timeless elegance of a villa or a cozy lakeside elopement, we’re passionate about preserving your story in a way that feels authentic and artistic. If you’re looking for someone to document your special day, we’d love to be part of your journey—reach out to us anytime!

A&A Productions
Photographer and videographer in Italy | Milan, Lake Como, Lake Garda, Lake Maggiore, Venice
P.IVA 12504330965
Email: info@alberanastasiaproductions.com